Add the strawberries and blueberries into a pot and heat over a low heat
Add the lemon juice into the pot and stir
Mix in the sugar, one cup at a time, and stir until it is dissolved
Crush the lavender in your hands and add it to the cooking mixture, stirring it in
Raise the heat to high and bring the mixture to a boil, stirring often to avoid burning
Using a wooden spoon or ladle, softly press down and smash the fruit
Scrape off any foam bubbling on top of the mixture
Add the vanilla and stir
Boil and stir until the mixture reaches a temperature of 220 degrees F, or, another way to check if it is ready, using a spoon spread a thin line of the preserves across a cold surface, if it jellies then it is ready
Sterilize the jars you are going to be adding the preserves to by cleaning them with boiling hot water, thus also heating the jars
Using a large stock pot, add hot water and bring to a boil
Transfer the mixture to the warm jars, leaving ¼ inch from the top, and seal them tight
Using tongs, transfer them into the stockpot with boiling water and make sure they are covered
Process in the boiling water for about 5-10 minutes
Let them cool for about 24 hours in a cool dark place and seal. Check the seal by pressing down on the lid and making sure it does not pop up
Store in a cool dark place
Serve on toast or use as an ice cream or cheesecake topping